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Old 07-03-2011, 04:18 PM   #14
NiliSpuppypax

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Sister, its all about Quality and not Quantity.

For example i want a toy which i extremly love. my father gave me that one, and i am very happy.

My brother wanted to have same toy, but he got 5 toys which he didnt like the one which he wanted. so who got more? my bro or me? my bro got more in quantity, but i got more in quality. at teh end i am the happiest one as i am satisfied so it doesnt matter about the number of toys(huuris!). In paradise woman will not be less satisfied than man.

Surah An-Nisâ' (4):194:
And whoever does righteous good deeds, male or female, and is a true believer in the Oneness of
Allâh (Muslim), such will enter Paradise and not the least injustice, even to the size of aNaqîra
(speck on the back of a datestone), will be done to them.

Sister, stop guessing about what will happen in Jannah, Allah hasnt created our mind enough to understand how jannah is.
And our mind will not work same way in paradise ike in this World, neither our feelings will be same like this world.Allah will satisfy us withwhatever we want, and not manipulate us.

We, the men and women are equal in the sight of Allah (SWT) except for those whom are more pious. Just because we're equal doesn’t mean we're exactly the same. We have physical, mental and emotional differences. Men have superiority over women in certain aspects such as physical strength, while women have more superiority over men from a caring and nurturing perspective. In the same manner, like our
differences, we may have rewards that are different from one another, but that in no way suggest
inequality. If you want to reward your son for something, perhaps you'll let him play a video
game for example, whereas if you want to reward your daughter, perhaps you'll let her invite her
friend over, or buy her something nice. Men and women have different needs and wants so
obviously rewards would differ.

Having said that, the gretest reward for the Muslim believers, men and women, in Jannah
(Paradise) will be to view the Countenance (Appearance) of Allah (SWT). And for the believers
there will be nothing more delightful than looking at Him;


This is mentioned in the following Hadiths:
Imam Ahmad recorded from Suhayb ibn Sinan ar-Rumi: The Messenger of Allah recited, (the

words meaning), “For those who have done good is the best and even more.” [Sura Yunus, 26] He said, “When the people of Paradise enter Paradise, a caller will say: `O people of Paradise, Allah has promised you something that He wishes to fulfill.' They will reply: `What is it Has He not made our Scale heavy Has He not made our faces white and delivered us from Fire?' He (the narrater) said:"Allah will then remove the veil (from their eyes), and they will look at the
Countenance (Appearance) of Allah, the Mighty, the Majestic.” He said, “By Allah, they have not
been given anything dearer to them and more delightful than looking at Him.” [Tafsir Ibn Kathir,
Muslim]
Narrated Suhayb ibn Sinan ar-Rumi: The Apostle of Allah said: "When those deserving of
Paradise would enter Paradise, the Blessed and the Exalted would ask: Do you wish Me to give
you anything more? They would say: Has You not brightened our faces? Has You not made us
enter Paradise and saved us from Fire? He (the narrator) said: He (God) would lift the veil (from
their eyes), and of things given to them nothing would be dearer to them than the sight of their
Lord, the Mighty and the Glorious." [Sahih Muslim, Book 1, Number 0347]
Doubtless we, the men and women, are promissed to have what we want in Paradise (Jannah);
Allâh (SWT) says in the Holy Quran:
"Therein you shall have (all) that your inner selves desire, and therein you shall have (all) for
which you ask for.”
[Sura Fussilat 41:31-32]
"ALLAH KNOWS BEST"
I don't disagree with you. But the hadith (Allah won't admit anyone in paradise..) and the ayah from the Holy Quran (So it shall be...) made me feel that if I don't want to share my husband i won't be allowed to do so. My jealousy will be removed and my potential husband would be made to accept multiple wives. I was just pointing out that men get extra rewards compared to women. But finally it all comes down to this, that we don't have the brains to comprehend about the afterlife, after reading all your posts. And I have mentioned in the end that I have to obey Allah whatever He does because He is the God and my Creator.
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