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**exchpaypalgold** · 06-14-2011, 01:40 PM

Teenage is difficult to handle. Both for teenagers as well as their near and dear ones. He is such a felicitous boy to have a sister like you. Please indulge in excessive supplications for him. Allah (SWT) guides whosoever He wishes and He listens to supplications. If you can find a Shaikh for yourself then you can manage the thing related to his intimidation by you. If the channel of communication with you becomes wide enough then it should be enough to solve the problem. You see we have to fit ourselves into Islam the way it is. Not the other way round. This is a big step, only made more difficult by the environment. The so called freedom of the society in which you live, like all freedoms, comes with a price. Either you be very responsible or you pay dearly. I hope this brother of ours realizes it soon. This is where you can do some work. Not being a white, and having only limited experience of western social and cultural environment I personally feel completely incompetent to suggest practical remedies but I am sure white brothers and brothers having experience of western environment will be doing that,

. May Allah (SWT) make it easy for him, you and all of us.
Wassalam

Edit: Kindly keep us posted about his progress.

06-14-2011, 01:40 PM	#7
exchpaypalgold Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 626 Senior Member	Teenage is difficult to handle. Both for teenagers as well as their near and dear ones. He is such a felicitous boy to have a sister like you. Please indulge in excessive supplications for him. Allah (SWT) guides whosoever He wishes and He listens to supplications. If you can find a Shaikh for yourself then you can manage the thing related to his intimidation by you. If the channel of communication with you becomes wide enough then it should be enough to solve the problem. You see we have to fit ourselves into Islam the way it is. Not the other way round. This is a big step, only made more difficult by the environment. The so called freedom of the society in which you live, like all freedoms, comes with a price. Either you be very responsible or you pay dearly. I hope this brother of ours realizes it soon. This is where you can do some work. Not being a white, and having only limited experience of western social and cultural environment I personally feel completely incompetent to suggest practical remedies but I am sure white brothers and brothers having experience of western environment will be doing that, . May Allah (SWT) make it easy for him, you and all of us. Wassalam Edit: Kindly keep us posted about his progress.
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