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A brother is in a dilemma. He doesn't know how to say no to a sister for marriage who he has no attraction to. He doesn't want to hurt her feelings. What should he do?

I agree with sister pouring rain. Attraction stays for some time and then vanishes. If you marry someone based on attraction, i doubt if it lasts long. There was one girl who I intended to marry based on attraction. Later I got married to some other girl and the girl whom I intended to marry first too got married. After her marriage, she became fat and is no longer attractive. I said to myself

I don't see any point in not marrying a girl based on attraction. We should see her character and girl's of good character are far more attractive in a married life rather than the girls of face's attraction