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05-03-2011, 03:29 AM
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flnastyax
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Sister Aram:
It's kind of hard to do that:
1. I grew up with this sister.
2. When it came time to actually protect her and a couple of sisters because they were being harassed, she didn't call anyone else, but she called her brother to ask for my help in this matter.
3. I honestly cannot let go for the sole reason that to do so would be the same thing as letting go of the one thing that Allah has used as a source of inspiration for me to strive hard on the deen. That is not to say I will become a kafir, A uzu bIllah. But that would be like me saying that everything I have done is in vain as we will not be together in Jannat-Ul-Firdoz as that is the case (According to hadith, you will be with your wife in Jannat Ul Firdoz if I am not mistaken) with RasulAllah (S.A.W.).
4. Our families are indeed close, possibly best of family friends.
People always say Allah will grant something better. That is an obvious answer in the sense that only perfection lies with Allah. So therefore, until I've exhausted every option, I'm not giving up in trying or in my duas. Simple as that. If there was something that Allah used to inspire you to do some good in this world (whatever it may be, whether that's helping the homeless, passing knowledge on to the youngsters, etc.), you're going to try to do everything you can to keep whatever that inspiration is in your life. Simple as that. For me, this is dealing with how much my Iman has increased over the passed few years seeing this sister inspire others and for me, I need that very inspiration in my life. Like I said, I don't care how long it takes. All I can ask from you sister is that you please make dua for me sincerely in the same manner that the brother Verdana is. I will definitely be making dua for Allah to increase you in your Namaat, Aamaal, Taqwah, Tawfiq and forgiveness from Allah for all of us sincerely by name or username. whatever the case is.
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