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05-03-2011, 06:58 AM
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I interpret those dreams as attaining taqwa, tawfiq and best of the spiritual ranks. And perhaps your own sister will mediate between you and her. So don't give up on this girl as of yet, instead, concentrate on your worship to purify it from everyone else' existence. In other words, try to consider doing all those good deeds without anyone in your mind - including that girl. The reason is that, sometimes "feelings" towards opposite gender forces your Nafs into good direction where you might feel as if your faith had been increased.
My friend Abdullah made istikharah for a girl he was much interested in. She was an extraordinary beautiful girl, albeit a non-veiling feminist one. The dream came out to be, a green snake. He understood that although she would physically satisfy him, but overall she wasn't the one worth marrying to as per her character. Lately he got married to a girl having both: inner and outer beauty.
May Allah make it easy and grant you the best one. Amin.
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