[alex_loudermilk]

if my husband never leave me to go out in tabligh, I wonder how am I going to understand if he says that he need to go to fight in jihad..how can I let him go if I am not been given understanding and training about making sacrifice for deen. Having understand the word jihad only will do nothing. But, having been train and practice through mujahadah, spending one wealth, health and time and also making sacrifice of leaving one family to strive for deen, will make a call for jihad, easy for the man who need to go for real jihad and for a family who will be left behind and will be meet together in janaah, Insya Allah. but, without real life training, don't think only by having strive to go jihad will make us just go..it easy to talk and say why people didn;t go jihad, but to actually being in the situation unless you had been train before.

Can you be a heart surgeon only? And if you can, I am sure you will need a training. You can't just go and operate someone heart only with theory , without practical training. And to train ourselves to strive in deen, to make mujahadah leaving people who we love, spend our wealth, health and time, will not be easy unless we had reach certain level of iman. May be not high, but at least at some degree. I saw people who talk about jihad, call people for jihad, but when the real time come and we ask to leave one family for deen, than this is when many many reason given.

this is why tablighi people don;t talk about jihad and nobody know the wife and family of tablighi is the easiest family to be left as they used to. Although it will never been easy but this is what we been practice upon. And when the 'real' time come and our man needed, I am sure we who used to be left by our husband to go for tabligh, will pack our husband back and off he go.