if my husband never leave me to go out in tabligh, I wonder how am I going to understand if he says that he need to go to fight in jihad..how can I let him go if I am not been given understanding and training about making sacrifice for deen. Having understand the word jihad only will do nothing. But, having been train and practice through mujahadah, spending one wealth, health and time and also making sacrifice of leaving one family to strive for deen, will make a call for jihad, easy for the man who need to go for real jihad and for a family who will be left behind and will be meet together in janaah, Insya Allah. but, without real life training, don't think only by having strive to go jihad will make us just go..it easy to talk and say why people didn;t go jihad, but to actually being in the situation unless you had been train before.