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have you observed any Ramadhan or Hajj in Makkah? If you didnt, watch this Ramazan (on TV if you cant go there), there are tens of thousands (may be millions) Muslims from around the world, all of them busy in different activities talking, eating, walking, yawning, doing tawaf, doing Wudu, offering Nawafils etc, but when Adhan and/or aqama is said, hundreds/thousands safs get filled with same people from different countries, speaking different languages, having different moods in accordance.

We Muslims are socially ill, religiously weaker, humanily mis-behave but we are bonded with in a single strand of Kalama, we have One ALLAH S.W.T. and One Rasul ALLAH S.A.W and thats what is unique & so special about Muslims, as another brother said, dont judge Islam with the state of Muslims after Salafs.

I dont know if you ever attended any event in Tableeghi Jama'at, if you have never, ask someone you know and attend one of their event, specifically arranged for sisters and see the difference yourself. If you dont have any contact with any Tableeghi person, as in any Forum. Alternatively you can get into an event arranged by some Tassawuf guys, you will feel what the manner Muslims have.

All the best!