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**Tamawaipsemek** · 04-30-2011, 10:52 PM

so you are pretty much saying is you will live with a women you dont love or care for?

i rather be with some one whom i truly appreciate whom i can provide for whom i have genuine feelings for ..whom i truly connect

so you would rather live with some one and fake your emotions all your entire life?

isnt that the biggest lie?

you would rather have babies with some one whom u cant even look in her eyes and say i love you?

Nice post, FususAlHikam.

Cyber.satan, (I don't like your username, btw LOL), it sounds as though you have had a lot of expectations of how things should be, and then are disappointed when things are not as you expected. You are unhappy with how you got married. You are unhappy with your age at marriage. You are unhappy that when you went to visit there was no sex yet. Unhappy, unhappy, unhappy....... What are you happy about? You say she is nice and is trying-- that's a start! What else do you like about her? Try looking for the positive qualities about her instead of focusing on all the negatives. You speak of thinking you would fall in love, but maybe you need to re-examine your idea of what love is. Love is not an emotion, nor a feeling, it is an act of your will. Love is an action verb. Love is a choice. Learn how to live love in your marriage, rather then trying to feel it.

04-30-2011, 10:52 PM	#6
Tamawaipsemek Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 445 Senior Member	so you are pretty much saying is you will live with a women you dont love or care for? i rather be with some one whom i truly appreciate whom i can provide for whom i have genuine feelings for ..whom i truly connect so you would rather live with some one and fake your emotions all your entire life? isnt that the biggest lie? you would rather have babies with some one whom u cant even look in her eyes and say i love you? Nice post, FususAlHikam. Cyber.satan, (I don't like your username, btw LOL), it sounds as though you have had a lot of expectations of how things should be, and then are disappointed when things are not as you expected. You are unhappy with how you got married. You are unhappy with your age at marriage. You are unhappy that when you went to visit there was no sex yet. Unhappy, unhappy, unhappy....... What are you happy about? You say she is nice and is trying-- that's a start! What else do you like about her? Try looking for the positive qualities about her instead of focusing on all the negatives. You speak of thinking you would fall in love, but maybe you need to re-examine your idea of what love is. Love is not an emotion, nor a feeling, it is an act of your will. Love is an action verb. Love is a choice. Learn how to live love in your marriage, rather then trying to feel it.
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