Sw. didn't read sister's post fully, because i'm mighty mighty scared of threads like these which could put me in doubt. i humbly request sister Salikah to please delete what your brother has to say about Islam, please x 100 how I wish mods would do something so that threads such as these are not in the public domain but could be answered by the Ulema / Scholars like abuhajira, Saad & Mufti Husain and others... Sis, get a scholar to visit your home and answer your bro, DO SOMETHING ANYTHING BEFORE HE BECOME THE FUEL ! MAKE DUA 24/7 ! SADQAH !