[orbidewa]

The question posted has nothing to do with not thinking highly of Muslima's in America. He is going to go to America for two years where he will probably try to find a match for him. He does not know about how it is, so he asked me. And I thought of posting it here because it is place where people from all backgrounds come with their helping nature and ever growing Imaan. This community is more trustworthy than any one on in the internet in my opinion. If he were to know that marriages do not last there, then he will not make any advances on women over there who might want to marry him. (Advances meaning, taking the phase to the next Islamically allowed level).

And, like I said, in India, parents are the one to find a match for the boy and he does not have anyone to look for him. And he cannot do it himself too because the society does not accept such way of going about it.