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**UKkoXJvF** · 05-03-2011, 03:20 PM

If you are a scholar, then is it a 'good idea' to marry a female scholar or is it a far-fetched and weird concept/desire?

For example, you finish your scholar courses and then seek some female scholar from a female madrassah/darul 'uloom?

If you are a mufti or a strong alim then I would recommend marrying an alimah, you can handle them - at least the alimahs here in USA. They lack tarbiyat BIG TIME. I dont know if the mudarris here in USA are aware of this but they need to open their eyes and see the reputation these girls have in the community. They lack a lot of tarbiyat, its missing behind the pardah.

If you are non alim, no matter what you are in field of tasawwuf or dawat and tabligh, then run the other way from these alimahs - speaking again of the ones here in USA - run the other way. If you are non alim/mufti they do not even consider you human I dont think. Very high arrogance and conceited beyond belief. I dont think they even take on tasawwuf or dawat and tabligh to be anything worth their while - consider themselves too high for it. In fact, I would not even suggest alimah for an alim even, just marry a religious minded good akhlaaq girl thats good enough.

05-03-2011, 03:20 PM	#8
UKkoXJvF Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 453 Senior Member	If you are a scholar, then is it a 'good idea' to marry a female scholar or is it a far-fetched and weird concept/desire? For example, you finish your scholar courses and then seek some female scholar from a female madrassah/darul 'uloom? If you are a mufti or a strong alim then I would recommend marrying an alimah, you can handle them - at least the alimahs here in USA. They lack tarbiyat BIG TIME. I dont know if the mudarris here in USA are aware of this but they need to open their eyes and see the reputation these girls have in the community. They lack a lot of tarbiyat, its missing behind the pardah. If you are non alim, no matter what you are in field of tasawwuf or dawat and tabligh, then run the other way from these alimahs - speaking again of the ones here in USA - run the other way. If you are non alim/mufti they do not even consider you human I dont think. Very high arrogance and conceited beyond belief. I dont think they even take on tasawwuf or dawat and tabligh to be anything worth their while - consider themselves too high for it. In fact, I would not even suggest alimah for an alim even, just marry a religious minded good akhlaaq girl thats good enough.
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