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**UKkoXJvF** · 05-03-2011, 04:56 PM

In the context of marriage, tarbiyat is very necessary otherwise you get the scenario we have today in Muslim homes. I recommend only an alim for alimah because the girl will have knowledge of deen beyond her needs so he needs to be well versed on his side of the story to keep her in balance.

Alim - Alimah
non Alim - non Alimah

Yes I also do not believe in this "alimah" course thing, very against it. I think Majlis had posted a piece on this issue but I havent been able to find it again after I read it once back in like 2002. You can marry the biggest shaikh, alim, alimah, muftiya whoever, but at the end of the day you are left only with the substance, the nature of that person. Everything else sheds off and you have the raw nature of that individual. If he has a bad temper, hits and breaks things, you are stuck. If she is super arrogant, you are stuck. Tarbiyat is very necessary.

05-03-2011, 04:56 PM	#12
UKkoXJvF Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 453 Senior Member	In the context of marriage, tarbiyat is very necessary otherwise you get the scenario we have today in Muslim homes. I recommend only an alim for alimah because the girl will have knowledge of deen beyond her needs so he needs to be well versed on his side of the story to keep her in balance. Alim - Alimah non Alim - non Alimah Yes I also do not believe in this "alimah" course thing, very against it. I think Majlis had posted a piece on this issue but I havent been able to find it again after I read it once back in like 2002. You can marry the biggest shaikh, alim, alimah, muftiya whoever, but at the end of the day you are left only with the substance, the nature of that person. Everything else sheds off and you have the raw nature of that individual. If he has a bad temper, hits and breaks things, you are stuck. If she is super arrogant, you are stuck. Tarbiyat is very necessary.
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