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...this thread interests me although it got derailed in the middle......A member of SF met me back in february, and he said that one of his marriage prospects was an alimah, he was hesitant as he had heard from many people that if a non alim marries an alimah, the alimah tends to be assertive, is it true?...I plan on marrying an alimah whenever I get married ( have my own reasons), as for the masail issue, every man should have a teacher in fiqh, we are all agreed on that, so every man should have a mufti to ask masail before and after marriage...