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**RuttyUttepe** · 04-18-2011, 06:01 PM

Bismillahi
Walaikum salam
Mostly it is out of cowardice.
They go abroad and get married without notifying their parents.
Then they will come here for holidays when parents will look for marriage. They wont open their mouths even then but get married. They will then visit this wife when he comes to visit his family once a year or more like even four years as I knew some case. After years when wife visits him abroad, she will find her with wife and kids there and she is left in trauma. The problem is neither the wife is prepared to polygamy and the end result is deception which breaks the family and brings more distress. Allahu alam. Let Allah SWT guide the muslims.

04-18-2011, 06:01 PM	#2
RuttyUttepe Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 430 Senior Member	Bismillahi Walaikum salam Mostly it is out of cowardice. They go abroad and get married without notifying their parents. Then they will come here for holidays when parents will look for marriage. They wont open their mouths even then but get married. They will then visit this wife when he comes to visit his family once a year or more like even four years as I knew some case. After years when wife visits him abroad, she will find her with wife and kids there and she is left in trauma. The problem is neither the wife is prepared to polygamy and the end result is deception which breaks the family and brings more distress. Allahu alam. Let Allah SWT guide the muslims.
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