[Klissineopar]

Asaalam Aleykum ,
Hope everybody is fine i was just wondering why men marry in secret and how do they maintain fairness with the secrecy involved .Any body with thoughts

salaam
i think there cud be a number of reasons for this practice
first ,to generalize would not be fair as every individual has different challengers.
secondly, some possible reasons are
a)society is not ready to accept this practice
b)family ppl are not willing to accept it
c)country laws may prohibit this leading to arrest
d)guest workers and 'illegal foreigners' in foreign countries may take second wives purely to safeguard their imaan and islam so they don't fall prey to adultry
e)a wife who refuses to agree or acknowledge this sunnah may also lead to these 'so called' secret marriages.
after all said and done its sad that some individuals abuse this sunnah to satisfy their base desires thereby bringing stigma to this sunnah.
shukran