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**mincbiori** · 04-20-2011, 02:09 AM

I agree with br Nawawi's post, that is, that is how a man should think.

However, shouldn't we Muslim women not look at this as something that is so evil? It's easy for us to accept yes it's a sunnah when it's something discussed, yet when it's about ourselves, it becomes something khabeeth. While the Prophet

's wives would welcome their new co wives into the family. We women always complain husband's aren't fulfilling our rights.. Are we fulfilling theirs?

A person who marries for pure nafsaani reasons ie shahwat, he'll get thawab because he is not committing zinaa! He could have committed zinaa but chose to opt for a halaal leeway. But instead in any way he is in the wrong in everyone's eyes.

I am a woman and I am married

and I feel that stopping my husband from marrying another is stopping him from a right Allah has given him.

04-20-2011, 02:09 AM	#24
mincbiori Join Date Nov 2005 Posts 507 Senior Member	I agree with br Nawawi's post, that is, that is how a man should think. However, shouldn't we Muslim women not look at this as something that is so evil? It's easy for us to accept yes it's a sunnah when it's something discussed, yet when it's about ourselves, it becomes something khabeeth. While the Prophet 's wives would welcome their new co wives into the family. We women always complain husband's aren't fulfilling our rights.. Are we fulfilling theirs? A person who marries for pure nafsaani reasons ie shahwat, he'll get thawab because he is not committing zinaa! He could have committed zinaa but chose to opt for a halaal leeway. But instead in any way he is in the wrong in everyone's eyes. I am a woman and I am married and I feel that stopping my husband from marrying another is stopping him from a right Allah has given him.
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