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**gennickhif** · 04-20-2011, 05:44 AM

Br can you render it into plain English?

Is "Nikkah" an Arabic word with emphasis for Nikah, which means double Nikah or second Nikah? Also, What does itteyla mean?

No sorry I just type nikah as nikkah or nikah or whatever. Itteyla means inform. You gotta inform 1st wife so in case someone sees you out at the park or mall getting ice cream with 2nd wife they dont get the wrong idea and pass along wrong information like you are kickin it with another woman etc.

Lots of these amish and mormon people here in USA practicing polygamy at large scale, just youtube it, 2-3 wives and like 10-15 kids. And those who are not practicing polygamy just keep mistresses who they use and abuse. When something becomes cheap and readily available then its often used and abused, taken for granted. But in nikkah, or nikah, when there is a responsibility and love aspect to it, then its appreciated and valued.

But again dont take fusus words in the wrong way, keeping 1 wife is a big responsibility. A guy first has to prove himself in the test of 1 wife before he can progress forward. Getting 2nd wife is not for common man I dont think, its a very delicate balance most men in this age I dont think can do, they are still too busy hanging out at restaurants with their "boys" or playing nintendo or playing with a bat and ball. People who properly keep 2 wives seem like they are really on top of their game, usually scholars mashaikh or very knowledgeable people/muttaqi/have worldly means going well also. Thats what fusus thinks. You need to have a good muttaqi head on your shoulders before you do something like this else you could possibly ruin a lot of lives.

04-20-2011, 05:44 AM	#36
gennickhif Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 729 Senior Member	Br can you render it into plain English? Is "Nikkah" an Arabic word with emphasis for Nikah, which means double Nikah or second Nikah? Also, What does itteyla mean? No sorry I just type nikah as nikkah or nikah or whatever. Itteyla means inform. You gotta inform 1st wife so in case someone sees you out at the park or mall getting ice cream with 2nd wife they dont get the wrong idea and pass along wrong information like you are kickin it with another woman etc. Lots of these amish and mormon people here in USA practicing polygamy at large scale, just youtube it, 2-3 wives and like 10-15 kids. And those who are not practicing polygamy just keep mistresses who they use and abuse. When something becomes cheap and readily available then its often used and abused, taken for granted. But in nikkah, or nikah, when there is a responsibility and love aspect to it, then its appreciated and valued. But again dont take fusus words in the wrong way, keeping 1 wife is a big responsibility. A guy first has to prove himself in the test of 1 wife before he can progress forward. Getting 2nd wife is not for common man I dont think, its a very delicate balance most men in this age I dont think can do, they are still too busy hanging out at restaurants with their "boys" or playing nintendo or playing with a bat and ball. People who properly keep 2 wives seem like they are really on top of their game, usually scholars mashaikh or very knowledgeable people/muttaqi/have worldly means going well also. Thats what fusus thinks. You need to have a good muttaqi head on your shoulders before you do something like this else you could possibly ruin a lot of lives.
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