[juptVatoSoito]

This thread need not get out of hand. I think that things are different in different parts of the world and so we should make that clear. Non-Western answers may not be a solution to Western problems as there is a difference in state structure, opportunities and way of life. Now this isn't to say that some follow the Sunnah and some don't, but there are situational circumstances that may mean that you approach things differently.