[WaysletlyLene]

the situation is same every where in wwhole muslim world whether its east or west and in religious or non-religious people. No one can get financially stable in his whole life these days due to econmical situation in this era , to the point where his parents wants him to be unless he takes loans or he has strong financial background etc. Exceptions are possible but for majority, this is the case

Sadly, our parents dont realize this and they dont even bother to think over it. Ulema cant do anything since people dont refer to them . They only refer to them when there is divorce or nikah or any other big incident. They dont refer to ulema for guidance but just to find an immediate solution to their big problem which has popped up all of a sudden.

On other hand sisters are soooooo demanding as well. They want 100% which is impossible. There are few who are very good but mostly, this is the case. So, for brothers who want to get married early, this causes a full stop. While, some brothers are looking for Angelina Julie in nikab, which eats their whole life up.

There is not much ulema can do regarding this unless they start giving khutbah regularly over this topic, which they dont. This problem has already been discussed but we coudnt come up to any solution . So i gues we will stay DEOBANDI and thus lazy