I think there there is much "hikam(ah)" in this post (sorry I know know it's a cheap pun but I couldn't help it). But seriously, the how realistic is it to expect someone in their late teens to support a wife as well as study full time? The other option is to quit studying and get a job in a call centre, factory etc. Although there's nothing wrong with this as it's a halal income, would it be a waste of talent for those who are capable of much more?