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**HondasMenFox** · 03-29-2011, 03:01 AM

Dude, the whole point is that a 15 year old hasn't got the money to feed his wife,

Well...he could wait till 20 before marrying then. Or his father could work harder to feed them. Did the Prophet(saws) not say that food for one is enough for two?

who's talking about love and affection?

Sometimes we underestimate our women grossly.

Can you feed her that? How do you cook it?

You need to read the lives of the Azwaj-e-Mutahharaat brother. And the life of Fatima(ra) bint Muhammad(saws). They('Ali & Fatima) had hardly two morsels to eat and felt sad if they could not get a guest to share their meagre meal, while we start counting our wifes' morsels before she even comes in our nikaah. And I am not going to bore you with the hadith about the Sahabi who took another to his house as a guest while they had food which was only enough for husband-wife.......we know the end result......

And the point remains that most Muslims within the UK don't have a clue about marriage, how are they supposed to look after each other and their rights?

That has to be an exaggeration. What is so difficult about looking after another human and giving his rights...except some extra ones.

End of the day, the fatwa is pretty simple:

http://qa.sunnipath.com/issue_view.a...=3122&CATE=202

Fatwas are alright. We are trying to get to the root of the matter here.

It deals with finance, rights and what to do when you fear falling into sin. Just follow the fatwa, it doesn't take a genius

Sounds like an accountancy class.

Shukran.

03-29-2011, 03:01 AM	#39
HondasMenFox Join Date Nov 2005 Posts 334 Senior Member	Dude, the whole point is that a 15 year old hasn't got the money to feed his wife, Well...he could wait till 20 before marrying then. Or his father could work harder to feed them. Did the Prophet(saws) not say that food for one is enough for two? who's talking about love and affection? Sometimes we underestimate our women grossly. Can you feed her that? How do you cook it? You need to read the lives of the Azwaj-e-Mutahharaat brother. And the life of Fatima(ra) bint Muhammad(saws). They('Ali & Fatima) had hardly two morsels to eat and felt sad if they could not get a guest to share their meagre meal, while we start counting our wifes' morsels before she even comes in our nikaah. And I am not going to bore you with the hadith about the Sahabi who took another to his house as a guest while they had food which was only enough for husband-wife.......we know the end result...... And the point remains that most Muslims within the UK don't have a clue about marriage, how are they supposed to look after each other and their rights? That has to be an exaggeration. What is so difficult about looking after another human and giving his rights...except some extra ones. End of the day, the fatwa is pretty simple: http://qa.sunnipath.com/issue_view.a...=3122&CATE=202 Fatwas are alright. We are trying to get to the root of the matter here. It deals with finance, rights and what to do when you fear falling into sin. Just follow the fatwa, it doesn't take a genius Sounds like an accountancy class. Shukran.
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