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Old 08-10-2009, 10:13 PM   #28
UvjqTVVC

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Yes, the bukhari jalsa was really, absolutely great! Loved the jamiah tarana/anthem...and mawlana fadhlurahman sbs bayaan..
But, frankly speaking, its caused even more restlessness in my heart..imagine what honour the graduants got today..the aalim who spent 10years,all of them spending 6 whole years! I haven't even given a year for allah's deen!
The feeling is coming..and its magnitude is great...this is honour plus yesterday mlna fadhlurahman talked of the mother from america making her 6 yr old hafidh...
I think honour lies in deen....so rather sacrifice my energy,intelligence and time on deen than on dunya..then again..i go to the other side...this matter is eating me up! I have to seriously talk to someone but don't know who..my dad is either at the office or the masjid and no courage to talk..one side mawlana Yunus is telling me to stop..the other side, there's family support..dont know where to go what to do...ya allah...allahumajburni..
So long as you don't end up resenting following the path of Ilm over your secular education.

Just remember,for Alimahs,the scope after getting your sanad is somewhat limited as against that of a man. A man can take up imamat,lecture etc. A Alimah,at most will teach in a maktab which is of course very rewarding,or maybe teach elder ladies.

Are you bay't to Shaykh Yunus? Is he giving his opinion or is he making a decision? you need to talk to your parents,regardless of difficult it is. make time as this is a life changing decision.

Is it not possible for you to do your alimah course after your medicine course?

Just imagine the tremendous source of good you could do if you became a doctor and was a practising Muslimah. The would be a great source of goodness for the Msulim women in your area. We need Muslim female doctors,dentists etc.

Nabi did not say leave yor trade or farming but showed how one can incultate deen in ones profession and thus please Allah and it could also be a great form of dawah.

There is a group of companions*i think* who went on a journey. They used to buy and sell goods in equal measure and did not try to rip people off. the locals saw this,and because of their pure business dealings,came into the fold of Islam.

How many females here wish they could see a female Muslim doctor or female Muslim dentist etc? So we complain when they aren't any yet also block the route for some to come into existence.

religeous Muslims are the first to want these female services yet we ourselves are blocking the route.



very interesting posts though by some people on here..................
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