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Walaikumassalam wa rahmatullahi wa barkatuhu,

JazakumAllah khair katheer for your duas brothers & sisters.
as of now,its no finalised where the nikah will take place.so i have hope and please please please keep making duas.

@bro FususAlHikam - inshAllah doing tasbih of Ya Lateefu.
my dad wont like talking to the imaam.the boys family is okay about it but they also prefer it at home.
honestly-i dont know what to compromise on-m worried.there is the pardah issue,the music issue,all are big ones.esp since the asian culture has too much bida-barat,mehndi ceremony etc etc.

@Farhanale - i agree.that does happen.maybe its better if the girl stays home but even if both go to masjid,i think its fine if only few people go.so less pardah and other issues.i also think about that,that i should not annoy my parents esp now (as it is they have a hard time with my pardah so..)should i compromise on this issue?my father really wants it at home but the boy and i dont.i feel this new begining should start from a place of purity,most of all-its a beautiful sunnah,inshAllah can be done once.i really dont want to let go.Allahu alam


wassalmulykum