well this 14 year old wasnt just throwing a tantrum. for three years you cant throw a tantrum. she was a symbol. and she was old enough to recognize it. 'in this age' doesnt abrogate the age of maturity, in fact it reinforces it more given how quickly children mature because of media and television. in US i remember a 12 year old running a successful business. 10-11 year olds know stuff that probably our women in the villages dont know until they are married. they can speak on a wide variety of topics and have extensive knowledge these modern 'kids'. they are not dumb. you want to see what real mujahideen do and don't do then i suggest you go to them and learn under them. it is an advice