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Black magic or/and shir has been done on 2 of my brothers who are married with children. Some helpful advise will be appreciated. Just to give some background info -

One brother unfortunately now does not pray his salah and does no other amaals. I dont know if he will even fast fully for ramadhan. When he comes to his family home, he gets angry without reason. He sits in his car after work for a while before entering his home. During this time he has thoughts in his head to leave his wife and children, to hate his family. Now he has a girlfriend and spends time and money over at her house. Although he comes home a couple of days a week but does not spend quality time with any of his family members. He has nightmares regularly seeing evil in his dream, he cannot go sleep for very long and some nights he cannot go sleep at all. When I read ayatul kursi at night over him and the last 4 quls he breaks down. He always seeing a dream that means something - once he said he was being chased by something evi i.e. the devil himself. He still loves his children but now he has become gullable, stupid, he has lost his common sense and spends time with this other woman who is older than him and has a 20 year old kid.

My other brother is alhamdulilah practising, more so than I. He prays his 5 times salah every day, he reads quran every day, he has implemented the sunnah practically in his life. He also goes on tabligh - he has spent 4 months, without he spends 40 days every year, 3 days every month, 10 days in easter and christmas. He also spends 8 hours a day on gasht and making local effort.
He also has similar dreams, nightmares and thoughts about his family. Because of the nature of his business he is liable to travel around abit to different parts of the country for a day or two here and there. Every week he would put on his suit in the morning and travel to another city over 100 miles away for work and would stay there for 2 or 3 days. However we have just realised that infact he was not working and he would spend his entire time in the hotel room not working, not eating or sleeping, not praying salah and he would have thoughts in his head to leave his wife and children and to hate his family. He would go through this every week. Sometimes this gets too much for him and he will start shouting and crying especially in the night and he would see "someone" in his room pestering him. Sometimes for Fajr he just cant leave his room out of fear and he cries and breaks down. Some days he will just stay in his bedroom all day in his pyjamas on his laptop not bothering to pray his salah even. He spends no time with his family and in his free time he always doing gasht till the early hours. He says on jamat/gasht he is happy and peaceful but at home with his wife he is in pain.

Both my brothers were very intelligent and capable and have become stupid. They spend i.e. waste their money and therfore have no savings for their families despite being on decent salaries.
My family has no grudges with anyone, we have many many relations, we are like a major family in our tribe and because of that as well as where we live, people are always paying attention to my family in how we are doing, making snidy comments and I can just tell that despite the outward friendliness of most of our relations there is deep down jealousy for our family because in their eyes we are doing well religiously and worldly with good jobs, good relations, unity within our family, no divorces, no other misdemeaners etc etc

My brothers are being treated by a scholar in Pakistan over the phone but progress is slow (over 2 years) and it appears that its going to take a long time. The other family members seem fine. both these brothers are married in the same family. both these brothers are stranged from their famly aswell as their parents and other siblings

Since joining the forum I have realised many good brothers and sisters are here - I was wondering what advice can you give or where else can I go to help my brothers.