[mudozvonf]

Please direct such queries to reputable Muftis. People here are showing Salafis tendencies by answering what they feel is right. Deen is not child's play. If you don't have acces to local Muftis, then Please direct your query to askimam.org or darulfiqh.com

An interesting incident of Imam Ahmed ibn Hanbal was narrated by Haji Shakeel Ahmed DB. The respected Imam consulted with 70 of teachers to start giving fatwas. After receiving consent from them only did he start issuing fatwas.

If the non ulema members would really like to help the brother then kindly forward his query to a reputed mufti and post the correct ruling here

Divorce isn't a matter of fatwa though. The bro isn't asking us what breaks wudu, he is asking what a man in this particular situation should do and we the laymen can advise him on this issue as long as we don't break the boundaries of the sharia. Not to say that a Mufti shouldn't be consulted but still, this isn't something where there is a 'ruling' to be found