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**kimaddison** · 10-31-2006, 03:11 AM

Just get a regular g/f and get her into kendo. Either that or train her to carry your bogu bag.

I was lucky...My GF and I were together for about 2 years before we both got into Kendo. And it's a total bonus that she is Japanese. So I think I was very lucky and I am grateful everyday that it happened that way for us and that I have her. Needless to say we go to Japan whenever we can.

Unfortunately though if you do it the other way around you might be entering the relationship for the wrong reasons (ie. just because she does Kendo). And believe me, if it were to fall apart you don't want your Ex glaring you down all through training. But then again.....come jigeiko.......

Like any relationship....don't force it, it will blow up in your face. Go with the flow....it makes you more attractive anyway. Good luck.

10-31-2006, 03:11 AM	#7
kimaddison Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 414 Senior Member	Just get a regular g/f and get her into kendo. Either that or train her to carry your bogu bag. I was lucky...My GF and I were together for about 2 years before we both got into Kendo. And it's a total bonus that she is Japanese. So I think I was very lucky and I am grateful everyday that it happened that way for us and that I have her. Needless to say we go to Japan whenever we can. Unfortunately though if you do it the other way around you might be entering the relationship for the wrong reasons (ie. just because she does Kendo). And believe me, if it were to fall apart you don't want your Ex glaring you down all through training. But then again.....come jigeiko....... Like any relationship....don't force it, it will blow up in your face. Go with the flow....it makes you more attractive anyway. Good luck.
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