[prowsnobswend]

also how do you feel about your judges in your bouts and matches are they fair

Yes.

what do they judge just the hit or style or both,

You might find this useful.

is a rep that a high rank fencer has help him win because the judge thinks he should get the point because your sloppy or not as good even if you hit first.

Can you please punctuate your sentences? I'm having difficulty understanding your question without commas and question marks, but based on a first reading, the answer would be 'no'.

have you been robbed of a point from the judge

I have not, personally.

do you have to fence the judge and the fencer.

No. You could possibly look for some kendo shiai videos on Youtube to see what it's like.

what could you change to make it better.

The rules of kendo will probably not apply to what you intend to do, since - among other things - they are closely linked to how we practise kendo. So, this question isn't particularly relevant.