[SodeSceriobia]

I agree to a point Tokis - in some, maybe most situations, honesty is the best policy. But I am wary of any statement including absolutes - such as 'always'. I prefer to assess each case on its own merits, and to say 'sometimes' honesty is the best, sometimes not - every case and every person is different and complicated I know people who have kept quiet and it was the right decision for everyone involved in those cases. Of course, in an ideal world such situations would never arise!

I guess we got a bit offtopic