Stay tuned, ladies and gentlemen... this same issue will be coming to a military base near you. The day when same-sex marriage becomes federally recognized probably isn't going to be much further away. I'm sure that when this happens, we're going to see plenty of cases where Soldiers, Airmen, Saliors, and Marines who are assigned to the personnel offices and commands throughout the military are getting the boot - and FIGHTING it - for refusing to add same-sex spouses to the dependancy forms, processing BAH w/ dependants for them, or adding same-sex spouses to the member's SGLI.