[gtyruzzel]

Chatting up chicks on dating sites is cheating. In fact, it's a precursor to the WORST form of cheating. Emotional cheating.

I was with the same girl for 8 years. I was cheated on a few times. By far the worst is when your wife is playing housewife to another man. The worst thing you can do to your partner isn't to sleep with someone else...emotional cheating is the real killer. I'm not divorced because other dudes shagged her, I'm divorced because she played wife to another man.

Clearly you're not ready for a serious relationship. If you find yourself doing more than just browsing what's out there then you need to break it off or make sure she knows it's just casual fun and nothing serious.

If she's the one then she's the one. Not once during my marriage, or even the relationship from the beginning for that matter, did I ever once consider dating another girl. I wasn't the least interested in playing the field. I'm not saying don't question your feelings, but if you go so far as to be seriously considering talking to other women then she's not the one. If she was you wouldn't even consider actively pursuing another woman to the point where you browse a dating site.


I'm assuming that since you defined it as serious she's under the impression that it's exclusive, you hang out often, and you're both under the expectation that it will escalate rather than just be a string of casual dates.