Keep in mind you are always the one to draw the first punch, so a retaliation is almost certainly always going to follow. Let me try! Your unprecedented ability to remember tiny nuances of particular conversation (mostly of a personal nature and using that against someone), leads me to believe that you are, in fact, much more similar to a woman than a man. An argument will ensue, and a minor detail will be brought up (similar to what most women do), and used against that particular person in an attempt to be witty. This is probably why you have relationship problems, and more than likely haven't been with a woman for more than a couple of years. Going back to pulling the first punch, this is generally indicative of someone with low self esteem. These particular individuals will usually alienate themselves among friends, typically bringing up personal details from a private conversation and making it public to either appear better than the "victim," or try to impress the pack with attempted wit. This tactic rarely works, leaving the "attacker" with few friends and no one to travel with them when they go on vacation. This personality type might also lead the individual to obtain many useless and expensive degrees that have very little real world value, only serving to acquire a cubical job working endless hours making somebody else a lot of money. Fun!