The less interaction a child has with their parents to learn whats right and wrong, how to behave, and so on... The more they learn from their peers which more often than not are also ****ed up. Kids are always on a knife edge... You pull too hard on them and they fall off... push too hard and let them go on their own and they fall off... You need to continuously keep them balanced/on the path and eventually they start to realize this... And start to balance them selves on issues/dilemmas/choices and so on... Thats how I was raised...