[MIBgirlsXXL]

I'm speechless after reading this..

Bismillahi
Hazrat has the strong point at least when it comes to the majority of indo pak muslims.
Shamelessly men don't stop getting dowry from the wife when it should be the other way violating her basic rights as one starts the life and how long the ulema have been trying to abolish this shameless act but the result is yet to be seen at a significant level and the way divorces are heading, no matter how things are worst.
Even if a woman wants to go as a second wife, it is better to go with an arab man for he is well acquainted with but definitely indo-pak men are far from keeping up the rights and this is to do with the majority of muslims and she will be treated with honor in arab society while she will be looked down the by the family of the husband abandoning her showing only special sympathy to the first wife as the second wife is a devil and came through illegal means making her life miserable. Indeed the evils are more. Indo-pak society is yet to grow up more and the ulema will be keen in saving the ship that is drowning than heading towards and encouraging one towards more complication which will make things worst. Those can afford to enter the marriage knowing things in its entirety, I dont think it is a problem but ulema know the society better where they are living in.
Allahu alam