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**patrycjakolekk** · 09-03-2012, 11:21 PM

indopak muslims can't even keep up with rights of one wife so we should stop people from marrying altogether. Kyun keh woh to sahaba thay jo biwi kay huqooq de saktay thay,k hum nahi de saktay is liye better to stay away warna qayamat k din pakar hogi....

As for dowry, the main reason for dowry is lack of polygamy. Because there are more women than men, which means more supply than demand. So when the supply is more than the demand anywhere, to sell your goods you have to bring up attractive packages like buy 1 get 1 free and also lower the price. But when the demand is more you don't give any free stuff and the price is also high.

You can just pick up the matrimonial classified in any newspaper esp jang in pk and see how the ads are of girls. It almost like they are selling a car. Why?

Bismillahi
Dowry is not bcos lack of polygamy or else it wont go for centuries here.
It is that they are in ignorance following the mushriks of al-hind.
I was told every year in india when we compare the number of marriages, the number of divorces filed in the muslim community is more than that.
When people cant tolerate one wife and fitna is in a shooting level, will ulema and that too of shuyook type, will they think of saving one single marriage or push them towards destroying more families.
Sahabahs and their wives they were all well acquainted with polygamy even before islam. There the wives came down from 10s to 4 and here the case is different. You say Allah SWT allowed and there can be people of view that it is bcos of weakness of men keeping up the rights, Allah didnt make it compulsory and He SWt warned like mentioned by the hazrat. So each can have their views and so I think Hazrat said keeping in mind the state of the muslims society he is living in. Allahu alam.

09-03-2012, 11:21 PM	#13
patrycjakolekk Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 564 Senior Member	indopak muslims can't even keep up with rights of one wife so we should stop people from marrying altogether. Kyun keh woh to sahaba thay jo biwi kay huqooq de saktay thay,k hum nahi de saktay is liye better to stay away warna qayamat k din pakar hogi.... As for dowry, the main reason for dowry is lack of polygamy. Because there are more women than men, which means more supply than demand. So when the supply is more than the demand anywhere, to sell your goods you have to bring up attractive packages like buy 1 get 1 free and also lower the price. But when the demand is more you don't give any free stuff and the price is also high. You can just pick up the matrimonial classified in any newspaper esp jang in pk and see how the ads are of girls. It almost like they are selling a car. Why? Bismillahi Dowry is not bcos lack of polygamy or else it wont go for centuries here. It is that they are in ignorance following the mushriks of al-hind. I was told every year in india when we compare the number of marriages, the number of divorces filed in the muslim community is more than that. When people cant tolerate one wife and fitna is in a shooting level, will ulema and that too of shuyook type, will they think of saving one single marriage or push them towards destroying more families. Sahabahs and their wives they were all well acquainted with polygamy even before islam. There the wives came down from 10s to 4 and here the case is different. You say Allah SWT allowed and there can be people of view that it is bcos of weakness of men keeping up the rights, Allah didnt make it compulsory and He SWt warned like mentioned by the hazrat. So each can have their views and so I think Hazrat said keeping in mind the state of the muslims society he is living in. Allahu alam.
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