[KeestRast]

sister,

I think a main reason for us getting angry when somebody criticises us is because we sometimes have another disease of pride in our heart, we think we are above such criticisms. If we are to bring humility within us and think of ourselves as the most lowly person then whatever criticisms people give us will not cause us to get angry since in reality we are nothing

may Allah ta'alah protect us all from shaytan and nafs...Aameen