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**indocrew** · 09-02-2012, 08:57 AM

get a dictionary and look up the word "maybe" and what it means and then re-read my post.

I certainly did not say anyone was a devil and I don't know how you could have understood the following to mean that.

would anyone ask him to get his sister to befreind a devil?

mixed sex education is a big problem according to Islam brother.

discuss your thoughts about marriage etc with a learned Muslim in private and he will help you InshaAllah.

There is no need to be patronising. I understand what maybe means.

I read it as: Maybe on the outside she looks like an angel, but inside she is a devil.

I should have read it in my head as: Maybe, on the outside she looks like an angel but she is a devil.

Amazing how reading it in your mind with the comma/pause in the wrong place can completely change the intended meaning. The fault of that lies on me however and for that I apologise. I should have reacted better.

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My point about mixed education was not it's problem in Islam. But what my point was doesn't matter anyway, since if I really scrutinise, then somewhere down the line mixed education certainly paid an effect on my mentality so actually my original point no longer applies.

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It's difficult imagining that would help. I believe I don't suffer from a lack of knowledge but rather a lack of implementation/trust. Nevertheless, that is the best course of action. My problem is who and courage. There are two imaams I could approach, but I lack the courage. To reveal this aspect of myself which I have guarded for so long is not easy. And I fear it would stop me from going to events at those masjids or meeting them afterwards out of shame and embarassment. Even having a rant on a forum where noone knows who I am took a great deal out of me. I feel embarrassed replying to this thread, let alone having to do this in life.

09-02-2012, 08:57 AM	#12
indocrew Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 497 Senior Member	get a dictionary and look up the word "maybe" and what it means and then re-read my post. I certainly did not say anyone was a devil and I don't know how you could have understood the following to mean that. would anyone ask him to get his sister to befreind a devil? mixed sex education is a big problem according to Islam brother. discuss your thoughts about marriage etc with a learned Muslim in private and he will help you InshaAllah. There is no need to be patronising. I understand what maybe means. I read it as: Maybe on the outside she looks like an angel, but inside she is a devil. I should have read it in my head as: Maybe, on the outside she looks like an angel but she is a devil. Amazing how reading it in your mind with the comma/pause in the wrong place can completely change the intended meaning. The fault of that lies on me however and for that I apologise. I should have reacted better. ~ My point about mixed education was not it's problem in Islam. But what my point was doesn't matter anyway, since if I really scrutinise, then somewhere down the line mixed education certainly paid an effect on my mentality so actually my original point no longer applies. ~ It's difficult imagining that would help. I believe I don't suffer from a lack of knowledge but rather a lack of implementation/trust. Nevertheless, that is the best course of action. My problem is who and courage. There are two imaams I could approach, but I lack the courage. To reveal this aspect of myself which I have guarded for so long is not easy. And I fear it would stop me from going to events at those masjids or meeting them afterwards out of shame and embarassment. Even having a rant on a forum where noone knows who I am took a great deal out of me. I feel embarrassed replying to this thread, let alone having to do this in life.
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