[FredderiK]

I'm curious to know this.. and I feel awkward asking this to a imam or scholar.. If you like a girl on earth.. who is a Christian.. and you really like her.. But because you fear God and you choose not 2 speak 2 her.. because you believe in Oneness of Allah.. and believe in the Divine Messengers of God from Abraham , to Moses, and Jesus and Muahmmad (Peace be upon them all) ... and no matter what you wont change that belief for any one.. and also you never tell the girl that u like her.. so you avoid her and stay away from her.. but you really like her.. and respect her.. and want her to be happy no matter what.. can she be my wife in Akirah (after life)? I mean if a person who does good deeds and does what he is supposed to.. I mean is this possible.. I am curious to know.. :/

Make life simple.... your not even sure she wants to be with you or not all that part about her being your wife here and in the akhirah comes way afterwards. Go ask her / find out what she thinks . From there on move on .... The answer is either yes or no either way life goes on.
I know its difficult to do , some men are even more shy and sensitive then women.

Which makes life for men who are not like that more interesting ....

I once asked a girl if she wants to marry me ... she got flabbergasted took too long to answer , so I said maybe you deserve someone better then me.( that really meant your not good enough for me too ) . That made her even more upset. Regrets .... regrets

And believe me most of the time you think your in love but really you are not .... its your 'mojo' acting up ....
It takes some time for men to understand what love is.

You won't find answers from threads ... go live your life with all that comes with it , good, bad and the ugly.