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**zithromaxlinks** · 09-04-2012, 12:21 AM

I will not post any more because I feel, most of people do not like my reasoning so now I will conclude myself.

For this sister, there are two solutions.

1 - Patience
2 - Divorce

Patience is the key to every success, Allah (swt) praises it so much.

Divorce is something disliked by Allah (swt) but anyway allowed.

According to the following verse, Allah (swt) says, repel evil with good and your enemy might become your dearest friend but only very lucky and fortunate people can achieve this rank.

Reference:

And the good and the evil are not equal; repel with that which is the fairest, and the one between whom and thee is enmity shall be as if he were a bosom friend.

But none is given it except those who are patient, and none is given it except one having big fortune.

Quran 41:34-35

Salams to a degree patience is the first option but that would refer to small marriage matters not one as big as this. Clearly this is an abusive relationship. Not all abuse is physical. It comes in many shapes and forms.
Allah wishes us not to be ill treated.

Hadiths says that men should treat women kindly.

In this situation I recommend divore this is no life for a sister to live. Would you want this for your own family? No one would.

09-04-2012, 12:21 AM	#5
zithromaxlinks Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 560 Senior Member	I will not post any more because I feel, most of people do not like my reasoning so now I will conclude myself. For this sister, there are two solutions. 1 - Patience 2 - Divorce Patience is the key to every success, Allah (swt) praises it so much. Divorce is something disliked by Allah (swt) but anyway allowed. According to the following verse, Allah (swt) says, repel evil with good and your enemy might become your dearest friend but only very lucky and fortunate people can achieve this rank. Reference: And the good and the evil are not equal; repel with that which is the fairest, and the one between whom and thee is enmity shall be as if he were a bosom friend. But none is given it except those who are patient, and none is given it except one having big fortune. Quran 41:34-35 Salams to a degree patience is the first option but that would refer to small marriage matters not one as big as this. Clearly this is an abusive relationship. Not all abuse is physical. It comes in many shapes and forms. Allah wishes us not to be ill treated. Hadiths says that men should treat women kindly. In this situation I recommend divore this is no life for a sister to live. Would you want this for your own family? No one would.
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