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Its strange that you say you're trying to practice religion and offering tahajjud etc. but at the same time you are ignoring the fact that keeping your wife happy is also one of your religious duties as a husband....brother, we dont always get what we want in life....it would have been fine to ignore her had she not been your wife, but now that you are in a relationship with her, you need to realize that just because you dont feel anything for her doesnt mean you totally deprive her of the essence of this relationship.....Allah(SWT) has chosen her for you.

Some of our pious predecessors didn't get the ideal wives and they themselves admitted this fact. But they tried their best to make them feel loved and fulfilled their rights. And by rights im not referring to the basic rights, im sure you must be fulfilling them.

Hazrat Mirza Mazhar Jaanay Jana R.A had absolutely no compatibility with his wife, when people asked him why he didn't break his relationship, Hazrat replied that whatever fame Allah SWT has grated me it is because of my patience that I have done on my wife.....

Hope your matters get sorted