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**WhiliaStelt** · 09-04-2012, 03:56 AM

Typically before marriage the bride and groom would have met in a halaal way - but in some cultures / families / previous generations they might have not met until the wedding day. And then that night they are supposed to do it -- isn't that a form of "rape" as they hardly know each other?

A large part of the kuffar are always having sex with people they hardly know, do you call that rape too?

What I am wondering is, in this scenario in your imagination, have the couple married against their will or with it? You know that a forced marriage does not count in Islam, yes?

Sex is not something just nice for men it is nice for women too if her husband is considerate and has some idea how to behave generously, Prophet (saws) ordered that we not do it like animals (foreplay is a Muslim duty as is consideration between spouses).

I'm sure that you understand that this is very definitely not a good subject for a message board with both males and females on it. You should try reading A Guide to Sexual Relations by Mufti Muhammad Ibn Adam Kawthari. It should answer any concerns or questions you have.

http://archive.org/stream/IslamicGui...ge/n1/mode/2up

09-04-2012, 03:56 AM	#7
WhiliaStelt Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 482 Senior Member	Typically before marriage the bride and groom would have met in a halaal way - but in some cultures / families / previous generations they might have not met until the wedding day. And then that night they are supposed to do it -- isn't that a form of "rape" as they hardly know each other? A large part of the kuffar are always having sex with people they hardly know, do you call that rape too? What I am wondering is, in this scenario in your imagination, have the couple married against their will or with it? You know that a forced marriage does not count in Islam, yes? Sex is not something just nice for men it is nice for women too if her husband is considerate and has some idea how to behave generously, Prophet (saws) ordered that we not do it like animals (foreplay is a Muslim duty as is consideration between spouses). I'm sure that you understand that this is very definitely not a good subject for a message board with both males and females on it. You should try reading A Guide to Sexual Relations by Mufti Muhammad Ibn Adam Kawthari. It should answer any concerns or questions you have. http://archive.org/stream/IslamicGui...ge/n1/mode/2up
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