[Lerpenoaneway]

hmmmm???

- tv provides the fantasy...

- internet lets a person play out that fantasy...

- and mobile phones make the fantasy into a somewhat reality.

and parents?
parents allow this to happen.
as long as you get good grades in school/college and get a good career, and put on your friday best once a week for jummah, your parents will be the proudest in the world! they dont care too much about the details!!

and then there is also another side to this.
the child wants to follow a righteous path and wants to make his feelings halal for someone. but instead of saving their child from falling into temptation and letting them get married, they deny them this for whatever worldly reasons.