Jazakullahukhairan Akhi, Let us not impede our dialogue ya akhi, This is obviously about a certain masala based on conditions an obvios example is 1 may not eat swine but on a certain condition(this is very clear) But on the masala on touching the opposite sex their is a difference of opinion on how 1 may go about if "NEEDED" on a certain occasion. Allah has not burdened us to become mutashadid on issues where we need to act with caution and a lenient action based WITHIN the confines of the Divine sharia. Like I said before dear brother, This is a masala issue, the basic principle is that it is HARAM to touch the opposite sex but with each ruling has its ways of being acted upon within the different opinions held my many different shaykhs within the 4 different madhabs, thus Explaining the differents between the shafi'i route of touching the opposite sex breaking wudu and the hanbali route where (NIYA) is required in order to break it as in, If one accidentally touches a kind sister the blessed wudu is not lost but if IT IS INTENDED WITH LUST..... we obviously know the outcome So in short.....This is a masala, and As I have said there Is a fatwa by Shaykh Abdullah bin bayya(may allah bless him) regarding this ruling. Its not an excuse that they make, Its a Masala , Its an approach to a masala just like any masala FOR BETTER OR FOR WORSE, they have not "ENCOURAGED" this act but they reserve the right to provide proof based on our deen. If the Muhadith Shaykh Muhammad Al-Yaqoubi views light music that contains no haram based on those conditions does that mean the laymen will all follow him? NO, There are many Ulema and laymen that follow besides him but have different opinions against it. If I remember quite realistically, this issue of name calling goes on both ends of the spectrum. Are you giving Mashaykh of Tassawuf infallibility within lower actions within this dunya?? Do you not understand opposition? Given that Mashaykh of tassawuf might be extremely humble and hold secrets bestowed upon them by allah through their journey for Ilm....yet they are still human and they are able to defend,retaliate,oppose certain things in any fashion that every other human can do....... I personally seen people calling the nashqbandi's extremists.....evil and what not. But I really dont see why we should have an arguement on this akhi. I'v received my answer about if Haqqani nashqbandi's having deobandi mureeds.