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Old 03-08-2012, 02:11 AM   #30
Enliseell

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brother userinvalid,

I very sincerely request you to never praise anyone on his face, online and offline both. Ive seen the devastating effects of praise and what it does to a persons mind including me. Its better you give the person poison than praise him. By buttering up someone, you send them to hell because very few people in the world can handle butter (makhan), it turns them into firon.

As for me saying anything, im looking for a cure. im looking for some prescriptions here.

Assalamualaikum,

Thank you for advicing me, and I appreciate. Also I apologize for being like this.

The cure is very easy : http://yunuspatel.co.za/downloads/Fe...ituallyLow.pdf

If you do not have time to read from this, then a very simple thing which is tested by me. It is to sit in the corner, somewhere dark. The best is before sleeping, just close your eyes and imagine yourself in grave. Just think how dark it would be if it is so dark by just closing your eyes, and how small the grave would be e.t.c

And I am also sure you are bayyat to a shaykh, why not contact him aswell?

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Just to further add,

A heart is something which is very easily effected. It has connection with the ears, the nose, the eyes , the brain e.t.c

Anything you hear has a direct effect on your heart, anything you see has a direct effect on your heart, anything you think has a direct effect on your heart e.t.c similar with other organs.

And the worse effect it can be a forming of a black dot as related by an hadith. And so much layer is formed in your heart that it totally gets covered. And this is why sufia iqram teaches qalbi dhikr, to purify the heart from the blackness and the rustness.

Until it shines and glows. Also through hadith the cure for black heart is to recite quran as much as you can, and remembering death. But I am sure your shaykh has given you dhikr, so stick with it and do it with full concentration. Also contact your shaykh aswell.

This is why sufia iqram teach to do dhikr standing, sitting, laying, at all forms. Also, when you are sitting in a gathering then connect yourself with Allah (swt), known as khalvat dar anjuman.


Jazakallah.
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