[JohnVK]

That's fine Pluto, but I'm just wondering if an apology has been specifically asked for.
For example, I may insult my mother, but I may not even realise I have insulted my mother until she tells me how and explains why. And then i'd apologise. That's all I'm asking. Has an apology been specifically asked for with the grounds for the apology established.

Bhai, this has to do with your siblings knowing fully well what you did was wrong and yet not condemning you because they think you are their cute little brother.