A lot of this has to do with failed parenting… absent parents, bad role-models, divorces, single-parenting. Children who mature in life while resenting/hating their parents, tend to become hardcore liberals and Neo-liberals like these. The point about authoritarianism is excellent. Pride is a very important factor for children and families. In the US feminism has attempted to "remove fatherhood" and replace it with abstract forms, excluding and demoting the "nuclear family". Fatherhood is associated with authoritarianism and even fascism, in the politickal sense. There maybe justified reasons for this. Furthermore, from my own personal experiences, "white" people are educated as children, that we are evil (genocided the Amerindians and enslaved blacks in the South). That essentially is how it's laid-down.