I'm afraid you'll have to explain that one to me.. And if a family can afford for the mother to stay home with her children, that's absolutely FINE.. Collecting a welfare check is selfish behavior.. It's expecting society to pay you to be a single mom/baby factory/selfish whore. You fuck, you pay the price.. Don't ask your neighbors to pay for your fucking, or you become Sandra Fluke. Ann did no such thing.