Exactly.. I've thought the exact same thing many times.. "Did you EAT yourself into a disability, or are you fat because you're disabled? Is it the chicken or the egg here?" And I swear, if I hear the line "Well, I'm a single mom!" one more fucking time, like it's an unanswerable, self contained argument, I'm going to be on the eleven O' clock news for CHOKING SOME SELF RIGHTEOUS, PEA-BRANED BROAD TO DEATH!