[Galsteinbok]

Flubber is right in that aspect. The one thing you guys always, always miss is that just because your ready doesn't mean we are. As my husband says "the wind blows and a guys dic* gets hard" not so for women. And yes there are times when you're really not in the mood but it's just easier then trying to argue about it. That's not to say that you don't love them, it's just at that particular moment you may not be in the mood.

Lets look at the attraction thing, you guys get to look at what? Smooth skin, nice full lips, big boobs (if your lucky), smooth legs, nice round butt(again if your lucky) and someone that usually always smells good and takes care of themselves and appearance. What do we get? Hairy chest (if we're unlucky hairy back) hairy legs, hairy balls, hairy ears, whiskers that scratch, no full lips (men usually don't even have an upper lip), beer belly and let's not even talk about the smell and dirt under your fingernails because most guys just really don't care.

As for the in and out thing, it does have it's moments The problem with men is you are usually so wraped up in your own orgasm that you don't take time for the women much less most of you can't even find her clitoris. Then when you actually do your fingers either get worn out or you'll find the spot then move your fingers and go all around it but never get it. Which I can tell you from experience pisses your girl off and they usually just quit because their so mad. Sound familiar. Ever been trying to have sex and she just stops and acts pissed off....this would be why because YOU MISSED THE SPOT!! It's sorta like getting jacked off then she stops and starts up again and then stops and starts up again and so on and so on and brings you right to the brink and then stops. How frustrating is that? Welcome to our world.

And contrary to popular belief most women don't have orgasms during intercourse. Most of us have just become really adept at squeezing or vaginal muscles and increasing the moans to make you think we are but really we aren't. It just speeds up the process when you weren't in the mood in the first place but it's going to happen anyway so sometimes we just hurry it along.

Men don't understand that women need to be brought up to boil sowly. You need to touch your girl and carress her. We're girls we like soft things, so gently is always the key to a woman. Gently kisses etc...everything you do with your girl should always start off sweet, and gentle then you can move to the hard stuff once you've progressed. Again men don't get the fact that women need, and enjoy foreplay very much. Your idea of foreplay is at the commercial break of the football game to come to the doorway of whatever room she's in, drop trowsers and say you wanna? Let me tell you that just gets me going every time!

So yes, while we may have issues with men, we still love them and everything they do for us and how they make us feel. A man can make a woman feel like she's the most beautiful thing in the world even if she's 300 and been beat with an ugly stick. And that in and of itself is a powerful thing. Because who doesn't want to feel like they are the most important and special and beautiful person in the world. Women can't do that for each other beacuse we're just to caddy to each other. Besides men can give you a good poke and every girl needs a good poke now and then